[Meeting People] The Ending That Happens When You Desire a Pretty Girl

๐Ÿ’”The Ending That Happens When You Desire a Pretty Girl

She is… still pretty.
Even before marriage, and even now.
People passing by still follow her.
I still receive ‘envious looks’ next to her.

But… sometimes I suddenly think,
‘Am I really loved?’

She goes to the gym every morning,
takes care of her skin in the afternoon,
and goes to fancy parties in the evening.

After work, I eat dinner alone in a quiet house,
and quietly do the dishes.

She smiles often.
In front of the mirror, in pictures, among friends.

But… in front of me,
that smile is gradually disappearing.

She once said,
“We… seem to be spending less time together than before.”

She said with a smile,
“You don’t think of me as proudly as you used to.”

After hearing that, I sat there blankly for a long time.
That was… something I couldn’t deny.

These days, I have a lot of worries.
Where is this marriage, this love going?

And,
Am I really looking in the same direction as this person?

But one thing is certain.

I married a pretty person,
but I didn't know then
that there was something more important.

Appearances become familiar over time.
The life we share together is much deeper and more complicated.

If I could give advice to someone right now, I would say this:

"Make sure to check first whether the person you love is
ready to walk the same path as you."

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